ZL
About Articles Contact
Published on Jan 19, 2026
Filed under:
#musings

Time doesn't heal wounds

Time doesn’t heal any wounds. What you do with time determines whether (and how) your wounds heal.

Generally, infected wounds have a chance to heal when they’re exposed. When covered, they fester.

So the strategy for healing emotional wounds is simple: Face the truth, expose them, and let the skeletons out of your closet.

Once you do this, behaviours can be forgiven, fears can subside, and change becomes possible — not forced. Then you can make any necessary amendments.

Do this as little or as much as you’d like since healing accumulates.

Previous Closing off the reflections about 'violence'

Join My Newsletter

I share what I’m learning on this newsletter: code, building businesses, and living well.

Sometimes I write about technical deep-dives, product updates, musings on how to live, and sometimes my struggles and how I’m breaking through.

Regardless of the type of content, I do my best to send you an update every week.

If you’re into making things and growing as a person, you’ll probably feel at home here.

“

Zell is one of those rare people who commands tremendous knowledge and experience but remains humble and helpful. They want you to know what they know, not just be impressed by it.

In other words, Zell is a natural teacher. You’re lucky to have him because he feels lucky to be able to help you in your journey.

Heydon Pickering
Heydon Pickering — Web & Accessibility Extraordinaire
The Footer

General

Home About Contact Testimonials Tools I Use

Projects

Magical Dev School Splendid Labz

Socials

Youtube Instagram Tiktok Github Bluesky X

Follow Along

Email RSS
© 2013 - 2026 Zell Liew / All rights reserved / Terms